Move or Stay?

     There only a few things more devastating for older people than having to move out of their own home.  An overwhelming majority of elders say they want to remain in their homes for as long as possible.  Whether they can stay or more depends on  many things, but the subject alone is sure to cause much anxiety for everyone involved.  Either way, you should make a plan.  These are some of the options available:

• Stay in the home.  If your parent is physically and mentally fit and can manage their own well being, no need to uproot.  If there is any illness, many resources are available, such as in home care, to assist your loved ones with daily tasks.
• Age restricted rental apartments.  This is a great option for independent and healthy people who want to socialize with other adults.  Some of these communities offer gardens, cafes, housekeeping and handyman services.  the apartments are specifically designed for comfort and include important modifications such as wide doorways, emergency buttons and bathroom grab bars.
• Assisted living residence.  This option offers a combination of housing, supportive services and personalized assistance.  Meals, housekeeping, medication supervision and transportation are among the amenities offered.

     If your loved one does decide and is able to stay in the home, there are many small changes you can make to keep them safe.

• Elevated toilet seat
• Illuminated light switches
• Universal remote controls
• Non breakable glasses and dishes
• And much more  (If you would like a more detailed list, please email me at info@lilyhomecare.com)

     If your family decides that assisted living is the best option, there are many things to consider and lots of questions you should ask.

• Ask for every policy and agreement in writing
• Ask about medication management
• Ask to meet an onsite resident
• Ask about staff licensing and qualifications
• And much more  (If you would like a more detailed list, please email me at info@lilyhomecare.com)

No matter which option you and your loved ones choose, it's very important to do your research, ask the right questions and assure happiness and safety.